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Trying to do both at the same time?
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Trying to inflate your ego by being the " cool girl "? Many readers thanked her for saving their marriages.
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Soon, they realize they have nothing to worry about.
Typical friendship stuff. Maybe you guys could learn to be attracted to each other, the way your grandma keeps telling you. But it can be really exhausting to spend so much time correcting people's perceptions and answering their super invasive questions. These patterns have paradoxical effects.
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What are you waiting for?! The emotional fall-out from hooking up with your male BFF and having it not work out burns hotter than a thousand suns, and is more painful than a thousand awkward OkCupid dates.
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